[Michelle47]

Time in the Spirit World

Can anyone tell me how long it would be before Matt would be able to contact me. He passed yesterday and am missing him so much. I need to know he's okay. Hope someone can help me please.
Love Michelle.x

[Sibyl]

Hi Michelle - my thoughts are with you.

There is no time limit placed on us as to when we can communicate. The only criterion needed is a medium. If Matt wants to get a message thru to you then you will have to visit a medium or a church in order for this to happen. There are no guarantees however that he will communicate but I am sure he will do all in his power. You have to know that his thoughts and his love is always with you and as you send out your love to him so it is reciprocated

My recommendation is that if you are going to visit a church or a medium, then go when you feel ready.

[Suebh]

Bless you sweetheart in you time of sadness. I agree with what Sibyl said but wanted you to know that prayers being sent your way


Sue

[Michelle47]

Dear friends. Thank you so much for responding to me. Am feeling as though my heart has been ripped out slowly. The Kids are crying and so hard to console them but we have to get through it I know. As I have sayd before, things are happening and they have stopped now. It feels very peaceful and calm, but sad. I miss him so much. What is the best way to communicate with him please? I talk to him, do you think he can hear me? Love to all. Michelle.x

[Suebh]

I talk to my dad all the time, I talk to my nan all the time. I do this because I know, not just believe, they hear me and are with me when I need them most, but also they are with me just supporting and watching over me. Keep chattng with Matt, he hears you and will in time, whether that be today, tomorrow on months away, and he will let you know somehow that he hears you

Sue

[hollycat]

Hi Michelle,
My thoughts go out to you as I know this is a time when its difficult to take in what has happened. It is lovely though that you keep talking to Matt cos I am sure you know he is only a thought away. I thought I would perhaps share the things that helped me when my son passed.
I do know that my son will receive my thoughts when I talk to him but the thing I found hard was not knowing if he was talking back to me so what I used to do was to write my thoughts to him down in the form of a letter and then I used to write back to myself as if he was writing a letter back to me and I would write down anything that came to mind. Now I know I cannot prove that this is him writing to me it might be words that are coming from my own inner spirit however I did find that I gained a lot of comfort from doing this and also when things are written down you can look back on them. I did in fact write some words down in one letter back to myself that I read a few weeks later in a book of the teachings of Silver Birch. In one of my letters back to myself my son described being like a bird who had been set free from a cage and in the book the Spirit Speaks Silver Birch uses this analogy to describe what it is like for the person who has passed, but at the time of writing I had not read that book and didnt really know a lot about the Spirit World. Several times when I have seen a medium and my son has communicated he has spoken about seeing writing on a page which is perhaps some confirmation for me that he does draw close at those times when I write. This is something that helps me still. We cannot be going to see mediums every five minutes when we are in need of comfort and this is a method that works for me. My own thoughts are really why would my son want to go and speak to someone else when he can send his thoughts directly to me as all of our loved ones can. If you are able I would perhaps try to read some books about the spirit world and our lives after physical death. If you go to snu.org.uk which is the website for the spiritualist national union and enter the site you will find if you scroll down a link to the psychic news bookshop which has lots of books that will help you gain your own knowledge of the spirit world. I think you can get most of these books on amazon as well but it is good to go to this site first as these are some of the best books you will find in my opinion and they are listed all together rather than you just having to put a search in for spiritual books.
My thoughts and love are with you Michelle and your family. Remember love is an energy that transcends the thing we call death and when you send love it is a real energy and a real feeling and the love between you and Matt is as real today as it was yesterday and all the days before.

sending my love and thoughts

hollycat xxxxx

[Michelle47]

Hello all again.
Am really struggling with my grief. I just need to know Matt's okay and if he can see us and is around us. The kids are very upset also and I can't seem to be able to comfort them properly. Can anyone help me to let me know if he is around and okay. Thank you. Love always. Michelle.x

[chp]

Can anyone help me to let me know if he is around and okay.

I am sorry but this is the discussion area of the site and we do not allow any postings requiring clairvoyance or mediumship. You would be best to join our Delphi Community where we do give readings and try and help the bereaved. These are done in the chatrooms but please do get to know the people there a bit first and discover how it all works.

Http://www.psychic-chat.org

You would also benefit at this stage if you were to look into Spiritualism. Many people get a great deal of comfort from this, particualrly during the first and most difficult stages of a bereavement. There is a list of local churches on the site below. Most usually meet on a Sunday at 6.30. You do not need to join or become a member, just turn up.

http://www.snu.org.uk

[cat1968]

Hiya as far as im aware it can take them 5months before contact is made
We have to remember when our loved ones pass over they need time to adjust an settle in
And when they are ready they will contact you
Talk out loud to them they can hear you
As my mum keeps saying she will never leave me,Always with you,We hear everything,And we live forever






Cat

[Sibyl]

There really isnt any set time for communication between the two worlds to take place. Some people choose never to communicate and some are back before their remains have been dealt with and there is evidence to substantiate this. Just give people the opportunity to communicate by visiting a medium and anything may happen

take care
luv
vi