[Tidus873]

OK, so Saturn teaches us lessons, right?And if we don't learn them, what happens?How will I know if I passed the tests?
Here's something I read about me that is really bugging me:
Inner resistance to change prevents a fulfilling and happy life, but its presence is often repressed or denied for far too long
I'm a Virgo and I'm really having a hard time.Everything I try fails

[astrologer50]

If you don't learn the Lessons Saturn is trying to teach then you will have them repeated!! Saturn is the Lord of Karms, master teacher, but is really trying to teach us about ourselves. It wants us to be reliable, responsible and hard working and to learn our Lessons thoroughly and properly so they dont have to keep being repeated. At the moment Saturn is going through Virgo for its 2 1/2year stay, so all Virgoans are going to feel restricted, limited and will need to learn caution, duty responsibility.......

[astrologer50]

Spiritually if everything you are doing is failing, then that should be telling you something. Either you are not supposed to be doing it or you need to go a different path. Sincronisty, the Universe is wonderful, it guides us on our way to Lessons and what happens is that doors open, the right people cross our path and everything just falls into place. Doesn't really matter whether we fail or succeed, as long as your learn the Lessons. If you don't learn then it will be repeated, again and again until you do.
If and when you have passed a 'test' or Lesson other doors will open and opportunities present themselves to you. Same with relationships in this life. Sometimes even myself need the Lesson repeated; for example, I married my last husband twice, i wanted to finish the Lesson too soon. My spirit and the Universe had different ideas - you will go back and finish the Lesson. So I went back married and divorced him again until out 'mutual' Lessons were finished.

It's only with this glib word 'hindsight' that we are all able to look back and analyse and see how we've changed and grown because of our encouters and experiences with others and Life.

LOL good luck on your journey hon......

[Tidus873]

Yeah but Saturn will return in virgo after about 25 years and that's a long time.So if I fail now I will live a miserable life...

[Daniel Brendan]

Originally Posted by Tidus873

Yeah but Saturn will return in virgo after about 25 years and that's a long time.So if I fail now I will live a miserable life...

I wouldn't count on that. You are constantly getting more chances in life, and Saturn isn't just going to hover in retrograde for 25 years, it's going to change signs and affect you differently each time.

[astrologer50]

Why such pessimism???? We ALL have to learn Lessons in this life, because that's what we are all here to do hon..... Saturn is the Lord of Karma and Master Teacher and he really trying to teach us about ourselves, things like duty, responsbility, caution, hard work etc, so you probably asked for these Lessons with certain people at certain times, just work through them with good grace that's all your spirit and Universe is asking you to do.
Do you have a lot of planets in Capricorn or Capricorn on the Ascendant as the might account for the pessimistic attitude, :lol: overley serious
Great thing is it doesn't really matter whether we succeed or fail, cos you can usually have the Lesson repeated, cos that's how we all grow. You wouldn't stop a toddler from trying to walk would you?

Lighten up, look on the bright side of life, that way you will attract nicer things to youself. Positive Mental Attutide is needed. Quantum Psychics has proven that whatever you think about, put emotion behind, whatever you beleive to be true IS TRUE. So visualise, meditate, daydream. Go buy the DVD 'The Secret' has some great ideas and explains a lot. You can by off Ebay or any good large bookstore.

LOL

[Daniel Brendan]

Originally Posted by astrologer50

Why such pessimism???? We ALL have to learn Lessons in this life, because that's what we are all here to do hon..... Saturn is the Lord of Karma and Master Teacher and he really trying to teach us about ourselves, things like duty, responsbility, caution, hard work etc, so you probably asked for these Lessons with certain people at certain times, just work through them with good grace that's all your spirit and Universe is asking you to do.
Do you have a lot of planets in Capricorn or Capricorn on the Ascendant as the might account for the pessimistic attitude, :lol: overley serious
Great thing is it doesn't really matter whether we succeed or fail, cos you can usually have the Lesson repeated, cos that's how we all grow. You wouldn't stop a toddler from trying to walk would you?

Lighten up, look on the bright side of life, that way you will attract nicer things to youself. Positive Mental Attutide is needed. Quantum Psychics has proven that whatever you think about, put emotion behind, whatever you beleive to be true IS TRUE. So visualise, meditate, daydream. Go buy the DVD 'The Secret' has some great ideas and explains a lot. You can by off Ebay or any good large bookstore.

LOL

Ah yes, I remember The Secret. I felt illuminated for a few minutes after watching it as I usually am by movies like that, but after a while the "high" you get from it fades into reality. It is not something new and won't change your life unless you really haven't ever thought about things like that. I would suggest the movie, though I have to admit that I would have presented much of it very differently. I just don't think it was very successful at branching science and spiritualism into one category like I do. One thing for sure that does help is saying something as powerfully as you can in your mind at least three times. It will seem as if you are broadcasting it to the world, mostly because you are.

[astrologer50]

Daniel, it seems you are an Affirmations fan then? It's all about beliefs, what you beleive to be true. I also like self Hypnotherapy and NLP. Why not give your subconscious mind homework, especially last thing at night before drifting off to sleep. Think and ye shall create hon..... LOL :lol:

[Tidus873]

Actually my ascendant is Virgo and moon in cancer.I don't know I guess I'm just afraid of failure...

[Daniel Brendan]

Originally Posted by astrologer50

Daniel, it seems you are an Affirmations fan then? It's all about beliefs, what you beleive to be true. I also like self Hypnotherapy and NLP. Why not give your subconscious mind homework, especially last thing at night before drifting off to sleep. Think and ye shall create hon..... LOL :lol:

Affirmations? I'm not sure what you mean.

Originally Posted by Tidus873

Actually my ascendant is Virgo and moon in cancer.I don't know I guess I'm just afraid of failure...

That's ok, there's a lot of people that are afraid of failure. All you have to do is take that risk sometimes. That's what I've been doing and I'm doing pretty good so far. Also if you ever start feeling like you're failing, remember that there is no such thing as failing. There is only succeeding in small amounts, which then lends up to a great success after trying hard enough for long enough.