[loser2000]

Please Help!

Hi and please help if you can I wasnt sure what section to put this under. I apologize in advance for this being too long.

But I am starting to get desperate.

To cut along story short I saw a ghost when I was a child (my brother also witnessed it) but as I grew older I dismissed the whole thing and remained sceptic of such things even though occasionally odd and strange things happened to me at times but like I said I just didnt believe.

My ex-wife would visit psychics and I would sometimes tag along I have seen them a few times but never took it serious but almost every psychic told me I was very psychic myself one even went so far to say that If I wanted to I could talk to people who have passed over but that I am blocking it.

About 6 months ago my brother visited a psychic to try and contact my deceased father the psychic was so accurate on many things my brother said I should go as I miss my dad a lot and wanted to know if he was okay and if there was a message for me this psychic also repeated what I have heard before that I am very psychic but choose not to tune in and that I am sceptic that was 3 months ago.

I am NO longer sceptic these encounters have amped up so much its starting to bother me greatly I have been experiencing many strange things (I can assure you all that I have NO mental illness in anyway) from visual to audible I even have a picture of a green long light taken from my mobile while I was in bed trying to sleep I knew something was in front of me and there was NOTE -- The room was pitch black at the time. I have seen ghostly images heard conversations the lot So far the experiences havent been bad only once or twice did I feel a dark presence.

NOW for my plea can anyone PLEASE tell me how I can stop this I dont want it in anyway shape or form PLEASE its really troubling me and getting worse and other family members have also seen strange things happen in my presence.

PLEASE! any genuine help or advice would be greatly appreciated HELP.

[Telly]

loser2000 spirit would not harm you ever, they come in love and want nothing but the best for you, there is no need to feel afraid hun. you are the one who is always in control and you can always ask them to step back if you wish xx
-Tellyxx

[willownz]

to your plight, many of us want nothing to do with it at first. I called myself a very unwilling medium for a long time - however genuine interest got in the way and I couldn't stop myself You are different though and as Telly says just keep reiterating you don't want involvement, you can choose to stay closed. Ignore anything you see and hear, just keep functioning very much in the physical, it can fade away back into the unknown. The more you focus on it, the more you open. Don't fear it, theres nothing to fear but fear itself, it can create dramas for you. Just ignore it.
Good luck. Theres alot of supportive people here, the chat rooms are also good if you need more advice.

[Maxe]

Tell them firmly to step back from you. They have no power here compared to you so don't be afraid =)

[loser2000]

Thank you Telly, willownz, Maxe and anyone else who has replied. I have never showed fear towards these encounters its just I dont want to be bombarded with this stuff for lack of a better word. The other morning at 3.30 am things became so forceful I did exactly has you suggested I said out loud to leave me alone and leave MY home I told "them" that I wasnt scared and to just go and it worked thank you all so much I have been at peace since then. I wish you all good health and thanks my sanity is back

[Mona Lisa]

I have a couple times felt dark presences and simply prayed very intently to Jesus to protect me from them and to send them away. It actually worked! Hope things get better for you soon. You could even consider talking to a priest.

[Warwick]

I fully appreciate how troublesome and exhausting this can be, having experienced it myself. What I did to stop it, Ior rather 'control' it - you don't want to cut it out permanently!) was to visualise a big steel gate, representing my connrction to world(s) beyond, which I shut or open at will. Me bring me, I visualise a massive, rather 'scifi' gate, motor driven with green and red light to indicate open or sealed... you may prefer a garden gate, or oak door, whatever, the principal is the same.

I asked an experienced medium and psychic about this later, and he approved, though he himself visualises a large glass 'bell jar' (as you sometimes see covering old closks) descending over him, when he wants to 'shut off'. Others inagine a shphere of light around them, or a force field... whatever it is, the ptincipal is the same, and it does work!

When I fitst discovered my clairvoyance (in my late 40's), I went a bit mad, intensely curious and keen to explore - as were others on 'the other side'. This was fascinating, rewarding, but a little unfortunate, as I need sleep and they don't! Wore myself out I'm afraid, it wasn't only lack of sleep, but such communication definitely drained my strength and energy at first... not everyone experiences this, but I certainly did. Another thing I noticed was that 'shutting the door' for extended periods (five or six days) also had a debilitating effect, I became uninspired and even depressed. I concluded that something essential comes through this door, which I need to live in some way... quite what, or how this workd is a mystery?

Opening the door is interesting, as my 'visualisation' is the door alone - what lays beyond on the other side isn't always the same. Sometimes it is blackness, nothing, others misty lights and vague shapes, sometimes a brilliant light with the sillhouettes of people or beings vaguely moving in fog (rather like the end of Close Encounters?).... nothing definite, and beyond my imagination - unlike the door.

I have since 'modified' it to provide 'one way access'... I can keep it open, but nothing can get through unless I wish it to. Not very successful, but I keep trying. BTW, on the other side of the door is a long steel corridor of some kind (all very 'Star Trek' I'm afraid!), and though I have tried, I cannot pass through the door myself and have a look round, which is a bit annoying. Nothing or nobody (as far as I am aware) has ever come through it from the other side, and entered my 'control room' either. I suspect it is just a door, like any other... when open, I can say hi to and speak with those on the other side (if anyone's there), and vice versa, but neither of us can pass through it successfully. I expect I will someday in the near future, but am in no hurry to that just yet, as I suspect it is truly a one way passage in that direction!

During the few years I have been coming to terms with all this, I am glad to say I have never had a negative or disturbing experience, and am confident that my welfare and safety are preserved and assured by unseen well wishers and benevolent forces beyond. Despite my sometimes reckless curiousity and persistent, nagging questions, I have been looked after and even indulged by what some like to call 'guardian angels', for who I am very thankful for their patience. It's a pretty safe bet you have them too, so don't be afraid!

As for 'being afraid', that's another matter. I no longer fear death, which is generally a good thing, and no longer have any fear of 'spooky places', evil entities (apart from living ones!) and potential bereavement, which is inevitable at some point. Passing on this 'good news' is a bit daunting, but I am making slow progress....

Good luck to you, and have no fear - you have nothing to fear, this life is just a little step on a big journey I suspect...

[Huntorkrunk]

If you truly do not wish to see it, then do not fear it. Keep in your mind that it will respect that you do not wish to see it, and as a result, it will not make an appearance nor will any other spirits for that matter. This has worked for me atleast. Be brave, kind, and confident -- Samuraijack

[cjbdaman]

i think being scared is normal i just started having experinces not to long ago and its hard to look at it sometimes just because im not use to it

[Warwick]

As a child, I was truly terrified of anything 'paranormal', yet fascinated at the same time. Since discovering my clairvoyance, I have been aware I am very well protected, as most of are (AFAIK?), both by my own reason and willpower, but by benevolent forces somewhere 'beyond', who I think sometimes despair of my curiousity and recklessness, but protect me, guard me and love me unconditionally. Quite why I don't know, they never tell, but they do... and I'm glad of that, and as grateful as I can manage to be (i.e. not grateful enough I suspect?)

As far as I can see, my guardians/guides get nothing much from me in retuirn (other than vague amusement perhaps?), we have incredibly little in common - except perhaps 'love'. Whatever it is, I assume I am safe, and have powerful, loyal allies and friends, who will never fail me, night or day - and I think, dead or alive. We shall see... maybe I will be able to retiun all those favours one day... perhaps I am doing that by merely writing this?