[PrincessKLS]

Okay I'm a Libra and I know that a Gemini is a good love match for me, and that Cancer is not. But what if a potential partner is on the cusp of Cancer and Gemini? Is it a 50/50 chance or is it a good chance :?:

[Rafikki]

Hiya,

Granted, I am no expert in Astrology and this isn't really an answer to your question as such.
Nevertheless, I thought I would just add my thoughts here as I am with a partner whom a very well experienced astrologer actually once told me was not at all a good match for me. Meanwhile, I ended up marrying the guy! ... and I am, still, in the best relationship of my life and I don't see it ending any time soon; Not if I have anything to say about it, at least
Sure we have our differences, and I can also certainly see the areas that the astrologer meant could cause friction and things like that. Because they do, I am not kidding myself. My husband and I have many great differences to our personalities. The astrologer had a very good point and I listened to it - however, I think that it was an act of judgement when the astrologer said that 'this relationship upon persuit would be doomed'. It was not reality.
Besides, whether or not my husband and I stick together for many years onwards - or split up tomorrow - I would not want to change a single choice I have made in this regard. The love we have shared so far is already enough to show me that it could never be a mistake, regardless of the outcome.

As far as I am concerned, just as with many other things, astrology is a tool to support me in my understanding of myself and my life. It is not something which should determin my choices for me.
Perhaps you have already considered these things, and are sat rolling your eyes at this point lol... I just thought I would bring them forward anyways, because I think it is important to remember that happiness and balance in our lives is something that we create ourselves, ultimately.

Sincerely,
Rafikki

[Witcheyes]

:smt006 I too am a Libran and as I am in an odd place relationshipwise at the moment I began to question my dating/relationship style and explored the astrological aspects to see what had worked well for me in the past and not so well, or simply what were the different qualtities and weakness's we bought to them.

You asked about the Libran with gemini/cancer/cusp...

It does sort of depend if you are Libra I II or III and same with intended match.... to a degree.

For me in the past I've dated 3 gemini fellas, and they were all so flirtatious and fickle, I was always guessing... then they all ended up cheating. At the time I was thinking, hey we are supposed to get on and are the best match up...

Ref the cancer thing.. I dated two guys of cancer, and they were nicer to date, ref the fidelity thing, but for an open booked libran such as me, who hates being shut out by someone they love, it was difficult.

But I also thing as last post suggests.. just use it as a tool, because the things that suggest we won't get along with some signs should be used as things to look out for as trouble spots rather than 'no go areas'.

I've just started tentatively looking again... I'm attracting Leo's and Scorpios... I find both fascninating, and my scoripio potential mate is proving to be a challenge, and I am a challenge to my Leo friend. (he makes me blush on a regular basis with his openess and honesty)... which makes me realise I am only as open and honest as I feel comfortable with, then I get a bit shy...

Interesting stuff though...

Ref your question have you anyone in mind, it sounds like you have and want to rule out the rules asuch... if so as long as you are happy to go ahead, and are aware of the pitfalls then proceed. Let me know what you think ref the gemini thing...oh gemini men, so nice, sparkly eyes, sexy smile, hard to pin down...

:twisted:

[emmie]

Geminis are trouble!!! lol im a libra and dated a Gemini for three years. Geminis are very self centered whitch Libras who value fairness might not like as with a Gemini its there way or the highway. like their sign they have two faces and will lie lie lie about silly things. They can never make decisions and neither can libra so expect alot of "where do you want to go" "I dont mind where do you want to go" conversations. A being that we libras are the sign ruled by Venus and in love with love we need lots of romance to stop our eyes wondering Geminis are about as romantic as a peanut they put on a big show to lure you in and then revel there true selves. I have lots of friends who are Geminis and they all agree that Geminis are also lazy lovers and will always prefer to take than give. So while on the outside these to signs are said to be a good match geminis are selfish and take take take Libras are more than willing to give we enjoy it but after a while we start to feel how unfair it is to us our little scales will be all off balence and make us misrable in the end.

Lots of Love Emma xxxxxxxxxx

[keele]

NOT all Gemini's Are like that Emmie ! - I am a Gemini and I value sincerity above everything !....also I can't stand people who put on a show and pretend to be something they are not.....or self centred.....and self seeking folks !

I think it really boils down to the nature of the individual.....you can never make generalisations about people just based on a Starsign....humans are far more complex characters than that.....

[emmie]

Originally Posted by keele

NOT all Gemini's Are like that Emmie ! - I am a Gemini and I value sincerity above everything !....also I can't stand people who put on a show and pretend to be something they are not.....or self centred.....and self seeking folks !

I think it really boils down to the nature of the individual.....you can never make generalisations about people just based on a Starsign....humans are far more complex characters than that.....

Keele I never meant what I said as a generalistion of all Geminis, I was simply offering my personal opinion on my experiences. And yes I know the human personaility is more complex than your starsign. But the post was about starsigns and so that is what I responded to. I only ment what I said to be taken very lighty and jokingly and as I said it was only in referance to my own personal experience. So please dont take this as a personal attack on Geminis as you said yourself humans are more complex and anyone who honestly believes everything in our personalitys are controled by our starsigns are really rather foolish.

Love Emma xxx

[thingshappen]

i am a libra and i have been in a relationship with a scorpio for over 2 years and i am at my wits end!!! I don't know whether i shoud get rid of him or stay with him, and stick it out because maybe i pray he will become unstubborn and nice to me...

[emmie]

Sorry thingshappen,
I'm a Libra and I too went out with a scorpio and have to say it was one of the best relationships I've had. Maby its nothing to do with the fact that this guy is a scorpio maby he's just a mean person xxxx

[Yogagirl]

I'm a Gemini and dated a Libra man for 6 yrs. and it was the WORST and most awful relationship I've had. I thought the Gemini-Libra combo. would be an excellent match but that was far from the truth, so don't put all your faith in the stars. Also, you have to look at charts and other negative aspects and rising signs and moon signs. My ex was closer to Scorpio. Also, my Rising sign is Pisces and my moon sign is Scorpio. You need to look at the person and not just their sign.

Although, I'm hot for another Gemini right now and that could be a double-edged sword for me. A Gemini man could be the best and the worst combo. with Gemini me ha!

[Yogagirl]

I don't really appreciate the negative comments about Geminis that I read on here. Even though I mentioned that my relationship with a Libra man didn't work out, I also have a good Libran male friend who is a great person. There are many great traits about Librans and not so great traits either.

I am not self-centered nor am I a cold hearted person. I really hate it when a certain sign is attributed with all their negative qualities on here. Also, I spent the last 8 years of my life dedicated to a career in fundraising to help fight diseases for non-profit charities. I think that's a far cry from the cold-hearted rep that Geminis seem to get. I'm a very altruistic and loving person (it could have to do with my Pisces rising sign) but I really get annoyed and upset when Geminis are nailed to the wall and are stereotyped.

I'm a very creative, bright and passionate person and some of my very best friends in the world are Geminis (both men and women). I have just started dating a Gemini man. He's actually one of the most fascinating and most hilarious men I've met in ages (and also incredibly sexy).

It really bothers me when Geminis or any other astro sign is attributed with their bad qualities. ANY person, despite their sign, could be fickle, mean, cold hearted or selfish. I've given a lot of myself to make this world a better place. Not all Geminis are evil and cold-hearted people

Also, in regards to the comment Emmie made about Geminis being selfish. In my relationship with the Libran, he was very selfish and self-absorbed and I was the one always giving. I really think it has to do with the person, not the star sign.