[Nat]

Yvonne,....

I am sorry for your losses, I know it must have been very hard for you, but you don't have to be insensitive because you deem my loss to be insignificant!

You need to 'get a grip' yourself if you can't refrain from launching in to a unprovoked tirade beccause I simply mentioned my dog dying. You are obviously still very hurt and bitter about your own losses, and perhaps you should seek some proffessional assistance with that, bereavemnet counselling or the like.

I am very happy to be deranged as you put it, ... I could think of a lot worse adjectives if I was cold hearted enough to not love my pets or feel anything when I lost them. You think no one has died in my world? It just happened to be my dog on that day!

Nat xxx

P.S - I am very glad tho that you said this to me and not someone else, coz some of the other members on this forum who have lost pets would have been deeply hurt by your posts - especially the rather rude 3rd one. It makes it not quite so bad that I can recognize the pain that must have provoked your comments so won't be taking them to heart. My thoughts are with you - Take Care xxx

[charleejade]

aww Nat
sorry to hear about your doggie xxxxxx

glad your taking no notice of these personal attacks although that can be quite tough when they keep on coming hope you can rise above it, It has more to say about the sender than the recipients i reckon .....

take good care and keep up you good work on these boards cause i for one love reading your posts as im sure many do . ive learnt a lot thanks xxxxxxxxxxxxx

[drusila]

sorry nat







dru xxx

[Nat]

Thanks Guys,
I miss his waggly ****, but it was two months ago so I was able to take those posts with a 'whatever'. It did upset me tho, that unfortunately, as suspected, people who have very recently lost pets did get to see what was written and were not too pleased about it. Seriously tho, who could be happy about losing this stunning little man - yes mummy is biased ...lol





Nat xxx

P.S - I don't want to hijack this thread, ...enough of it has been about me already..lol. So if anyone wants to make any comments please PM me so this thread can get back on track. Thanks xxx

[Nevaeh]

hey,i'm new here, but i also had a weird dream about my grandfather who passed away years ago. it was a time in my life where i reached rock bottom and didn't care about anything at the time. i was drunk, or anything but sober any time i had the chance. & one night i dreamt about my grand father. he didn't say anything but i knew he was upset with the way i was living my life. i felt as though he was communicating with me because it was like he was thinking things to me. is that weird? :?

[laalaa]

Originally Posted by angelstouch

Sorry but that is incorrect, A ' ghost' is residual energy, like a tape recording of something that a spirit done whilst here. A spirit is a live entity that visits, communicates and then goes back to the spirit world. It is said there are earth bound spirits. That does not make sense to me, why would you want to be stuck here.


Regards

We can only guess from our experience and to many people ghosts and spirits fall into the same category. You CAN say that you believe there is a difference and it's up to others to decide for themselves if your take on things matches their own thinking. There is no definitive answer. I have a theory that when we die and are no longer motivated by 3D things like hunger, greed, envy etc we might realise we'd been cruel or worse. I think we might judge ourselves and feel ill at ease, our conscience might not permit us the luxury of floating about forever in the beautiful astral. This might keep us from going deeper into that spiritual experience and more likely to be drawn to the spaces we occupied in life or try to make amends by guiding people we are somehow connected to. It might also be true that spirit finds it difficult to leave a great love behind to fend for themselves in the world. So now no longer constrained by mortal "time" they can see events unfolding beyond our human perception and given the opportunity and the ability, they might try to guide us away from danger.

[laalaa]

Over the years Ive had loads of unusual experiences. As time goes by, my working theories have evolved into those I'll write about here. I have never had the luxury of believing what I'm experiencing means I'm actually psychic or even if there is such a thing. I go with the flow while I'm awake AND when I'm asleep so when a lady appeared to me at the end of my bed I thought I was probably dreaming but I interacted with her anyway.

I can only remember the first part of what was said and even that's vague. I remember clearly she had long hair (I think black). She wore a long, light-coloured dress that had a ribbon down the middle - looking a bit medieval. I sat up to talk to her. There was already a little light in the room. She asked if it was OK that she appeared to me like this. I said that I preferred to interact with spirit when I was "asleep" because I had no fear then. I asked her name, she said "Eleanor" - I said "Like Lady Eleanor the song by Lindisfarne". She looked coy and said well actually yes she was Lady Eleanor. Once I'd agreed it was ok to talk, I can't remember anything else that was said but felt we talked for a couple of hours. Rather like an experience I'd had while I was being hypnotised to stop smoking. Back then, my eyes were open, I could see the therapist was talking but I couldn't hear anything at all. When the session was over, I asked why I couldn't hear her. She said she talking not to me, but my subconscious.

When I woke up in the morning I realised I might have been talking to Lady Eleanor of Aquitaine who is an amazing historical figure with ideas ahead of her time. I think she was advising me, teaching me and when I do have conversations like that I wonder whether I'm being trained in my sleep.

I've been told by a medium that I will, in time, be doing the same job. Now this is not a future I crave because right now I'm afraid of opening that door but I find it much easier to accept what I "get" in my dream state.

[laalaa]

Forgive me if I run off at the mouth. I'm new here and I've decided things are moving on apace and I'm keen to learn as much as I can. Another of my types of experience while I sleep is the messages. The pattern is the same. I'm sound asleep, my eyes fly open and in front of me, in mid air is a round spotlight. Sometimes its the face of a woman who has told me twice about something happening at that moment, miles away. Once there was a sort of "tableau" in front of me. There was a man and a boy dressed like hunters. The boy smiled as he pretended fear - he was facing me but between him and me was the man who was holding a rifle - he had his back to me. The man pointed the gun at the boy's head and said "What's the password?". The boy shook his head, shrugged his shoulders. The man wheeled round and looked right into my face and said "Having a go". I fell sound asleep immediately. I've never been able to decipher what that meant. Except for a while I accepted any invitation I was offered. I "had a go" at just about everything.

The eyes flying open thing happened another time when I'd tried a remote viewing experiment. This time I saw a very obscure chalk-like circle with an arrow through it at an angle (like an indians with feathers on). It turned out the lady in the US I was trying this with and in her time zone I was asleep while she was in a mall admiring a clock with sand on the face and arrows for hands.

So from being sound asleep, wide awake and getting some sort of message then immediately going sound asleep again is one of those unexplained experiences I have.

[ddomepaint]

Hi Nat
I am so sorry to hear about your dog. I am a dog lover so I know it must be very hard. ALSO...I think you are just wonderful. I always read what you have to say. Not that I always agree but please don't get discouraged by people looking for an arguement on here. Some of us love you and would like very much to read what you have to say. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!!!! I look foward to reading more from you.
GOD BLESS YOU NAT! :smt024

[Nat]

Awww, thankyou, ... that's sweet. I love my animals in those indescribable terms we apply to humans. My life really does revolve around them, ..before work, at work, after work, and intermingled with everything else I do, and have done, for the last decade.

No one has to agree with anyone, ... I talk to a lot of people on the side when we have disagreed with each other in posts, ... it's not and should not be, any biggy, ... we all have minds that can think for ourselves, and how ultra boring if we only communicated with those that were clones of ourselves.

I have (at least I feel I do ...lol) a pretty good perspective on why certain situations evolve, and why certain people seem to cop the brunt of it, ... so it's very ok with me, ... even tho no one who knows me in person ever takes me the way I am sometimes taken on these boards. Not to worry tho, .. it all contributes to a bit of balance in ideas and outlooks, and all that means is that there is something for everyone, ...so it's all good, ..lol.

Thanks for your support tho XXX

Nat xxx