I am in the process of separating from my husband of 23 years. I was going to leave eight years ago, but chose to stay as our daughter was only 7 years old and me and hubby are good friends. However, this year I realised that we've been flogging a dead horse. When I really thoguht about it, all romantic feelings for my husband had upped and left probably two years after we were married if not before.

We are sharing custody of our daughter 50/50 and she's happy with this; in fact she maintains she is not worried by us splitting. Yet it seems things are on hold at the moment. I've looked at two houses without luck and am wondering when one will come up for me.

Also, recently, we lost a good friend who I managed to see one more time before his death, but my daughter didn't. His funeral was a very emotional time and since our return from there (which was interstate from us) she keeps saying she wants to go back and live there near his widow (who is my best friend) and her children. I feel the same, but think it may be a knee-**** reaction to everything. Currently I am at my wits end with exhaustion, grief and nerves over what is to come (I am also due to start a new job).

My questions are: will I find a house soon and will I finally be happy instead of feeling like I'm marking time? Will my husband be okay? But most importantly, will my daughter be okay as well, regardless of what she says? Am I actually meant to stay where I am living now, or go to be near my friend?

Hope that's not too much to ask!! Could I have readings rather than advice here too please? Thanks in advance for any replies and sorry if I sound a bit rude about the "advice" bit

Cancer48 hun im sorry (((((hugs)))) but the forums arent for readings they are for disscusion we dont predict either on this site, the future is always changing due to free will therefore nothing is ever certain. I'm so sorry about your whole sistuation but truth is, only you know what is best and only you know what to do. You didnt seem rude lol andshould stop by the chatrooms sometime and chat xxxxxx
-Telly xx

Cancer sweetie, I can understand where you are coming from and how you feel right now, I am so sorry for your loss it must have been an enormous strain emotionally. I can only agree with what Telly has written before we cannot predict anything as we have freewill and if we did predict and you changed your mind then we would be wrong wouldn't we, I believe you will find the right house in the right area when the time is right for you to do so.

Why not come and join in the chatrooms we can all listen and give general advice to you there, and as readings occur you may just be offered one

Summernights xxxxxxxx

Hi cancer,

I know you aren't looking for advice, so feel free to ignore this if you like. However, I think you would really benefit right now from reading some books about cosmic ordering/the universal law of attraction. I would recommend Esther and Jerry Hicks, but there are many other good authors too. What you need to do right now is visualise the house you are looking for and imagine you already have it. Have no doubt it will come to you if you remain positive. As for where to live, why not just wait and see what comes up? You will know in your heart if it is the right place for you the moment you look at it.


AMP xxxx

Cancer,
I am sorry that your going through this. I am with AMP on the laws of attraction, It would be a great time to read up on that and use it now, For postive thought is very strong thing, As far as your daughter,, what it seems is that you have wonderful communication with her, That to me is the key to happiness in any situation and keeping that open with her is the best thing,
Just some advice as well, you can still be there for your widowed friend and still not be physically there, You can offer her a getting away and visit you to help her get out of the house. Or you can make it a nightly thing with you and your daughter to offer prayers of healing to her. Just look at all options i feel that goes for anyone that is in a bit of saddness, Before jumping the gun in anything,
Sorry i know you didnt asked for advice,
I hope that helped some thu
xxxx